Wednesday, August 30, 2017
World Peace. I've heard people speak of that wish for as long as I can remember. It's even been the joke that all beauty pageant contestants say it as their greatest wish.
I'm not writing about World Peace.
I'm wishing for Country Peace.
Wow. We've gone that far backwards. I can't help but wonder what people of the past would think.
"Brave people of 1964, you did a great job protesting against the Vietnam War, but it didn't last. We have a new war every week. Wars inside and outside of America." I am sorry.
"Dr. King, I know you wanted the children together. They're no longer separated by segregation laws. They're separated by growing up in a time where lines are being drawn in the sand. People believe you are or you are not. If you aren't, I hate you". I am sorry.
"Mr. Lennon, I know you were one of the loudest protestors. You were never afraid to show the world we needed peace through speech, art and song. Today the songs have no real meaning and none of them can bring people together". I am sorry.
I've been an advocate for children with Autism for nearly six years now. Trying to speak for those who can't. Working for change. Breaking down the stereotypes of children with special needs.
How can I fight for these children when the whole country is becoming more and more divided by the day? I don't have the answers. Not even close. So until I do, I will listen to those who felt the same heartache many years ago. I encourage you to make a playlist of these both beautiful, sad, yet hopeful songs.
1. Marvin Gaye
"Mercy Mercy Me"
Where did all the blue skies go?
Poison is the wind that blows from the north and south and east".
2. The Youngbloods
"Love is but a song we sing.
Fear's the way we die.
You can make the mountains ring, or make the angels cry".
3. Credence Clearwater Revival
"Some folks inherent star-spangled eyes.
They send you down to war.
And when you ask
'How much should I give?'
They only answer, 'More! More! More!'"
4. Bob Dylan
"Blowin in the Wind"
"How many times must the cannonballs fly,
Before they're forever banned?"
"How many times can a man turn his head,
And pretend that he just doesn't see?"
5. "Give Peace a Chance"
6. "Instant Karma"
"Better recognize your bothers,
Every one you meet."
"Imagine all the people, sharing all the land."
8. Elvis Presley
"If I can dream"
"If I can dream of a better land,
Where all my brothers walk hand in hand.
Tell me why can't my dream come true?"
Friday, August 18, 2017
Are you totally disgusted with politics right now?
Do you think "Oh, it can't get any worse", yet the next day it somehow does?
Do you like Game of Thrones?
If you said yes to all above, this is for you. You're welcome.
Forever Young. As a parent of a child with special needs it can be described in two ways:
1. Your sweet child grows up a bit slower than most.
2. The fear of passing away and leaving your child one day alone. The parent's wish to stay, forever young.
Things are going so great right now. Boog is just doing so many things. He's with the right people and at the right school for this specific time in his life. People who not only understand, but they also believe me when I tell them something new. You'd be surprised how many times over the years people either ignored me because they thought I was just projecting - wanting to believe something happens so much you convince yourself it has. I'm a concrete thinker. If I say it happened, it did. At a time that Boog is getting into more specific interests and doing new things, it's an overwhelming feeling when you know that teacher/therapist gets just as excited as you do. It's a blessing.
I wear myself out time and time again. A good bit of it is due to number 2 up there. I need to work on being thankful for today. I need to appreciate the accomplishments now, instead of immediately jumping to the next project. It's hard, but I'm going to try. I just want to do every single thing I can think of that could possibly help. Having a child who's non-verbal, I try to convey so much. Pages and pages. Notes and notes. Sleepless nights.
So if you're run down, dark circles under your eyes, the laundry is piled up - you're not alone. Just know that you can slow down, you are doing all you can, and screw the laundry (it will never be caught up, I don't think it's possible).
Here are a couple good quotes I've seen recently:
Sunday, August 13, 2017
Congratulations to all the parents out there!!
We have made it through the summer!!
I sort of feel like Tom Hanks in Castaway when he finally makes the fire.
I hope you also made it through and finally have a little (necessary) time for yourself because:
*This post brought to you by Boog's Mommy, who really needs a pedicure, haircut and everything else you have to be alone to do.